All my bags are packed, I'm ready ta go
I'm standing here outside yo' do'
hate to wake you up to say goodbye.
Cause I'm leeeeaaavvvvin' on a jet plaaane
Don't know when I'll be back agaaaain
Blue bag. The one I didn't want. Has grudgingly become an accepted piece of luggage around here.
Why would I not want a blue bag?
Story.
We had just arrived in Las Vegas and were unloading the rental *grimace*
mini van in the parking garage of the condo and
somebody got a little too aggressive with my maroon bag and tore the strap off while lifting it out.
Irreparable. And I was sad, because that bag had been a good and faithful friend. But as it was the beginning of the trip, I certainly couldn't go without some form of substitute to my ultra stuffed bag. So after getting properly checked in and unpacked, we went to the outlet mall.
Now let me stop right here and tell you that
very rarely are guys good marathon shopping companions. Like seriously. They poop out after one or two hours and start complaining that they are dying of thirst/joint pain/hunger or they have contracted some form of mall spread communicable disease. None of which squeezes empathy from my cold shriveled heart, but all of which annoys the living daylights out of me. Again though, I said very rarely. My bro in law, Lance the Pants is the rare exception, which is a very good thing being that he is married to
my ultra picky clothes horse older sister. He can marathon shop with the best of them. Now my darling husband and my brother, Mo
are not such great shopping companions. Lacking in patience, endurance and one might argue,
style, they are the type you would rather leave home when on a long shopping expedition. (Short term jaunts into the world of retail are fine, they just fail miserably when asked for more than like
five minutes per store.)
So the five of us were perusing this great Mecca of stores in Vegas and after about 30 minutes, Scotland and Mo were ready to head home,
having spent exactly 2.5 seconds in each store. Meanwhile, the rest of us were on probably our fifth store, and were certainly not ready to go yet, which I argued vehemently to my husband via cell phone. Besides, I hadn't yet found that blessed piece of replacement luggage, so we couldn't go.
Thinking the matter was settled and those two would just have to stick it out, I perused one of the luggage stores again. Did I want a black bag? Or a pink one? What style would be most versatile and user friendly while being sturdy? Being that this was the
second piece of luggage
I have ever had the luxury of choosing for myself, I was taking the whole thing very seriously and considering every possibility against the one suitcase I do have. Would the colors and styles go well together? Was it a fair price for an item I would hopefully own for several years? Would the straps hold up well (being that straps was what got me into this predicament in the first place) and did they have the right length and width for comfort?
Whilst I was in the midst of this
very great and important decision making I noticed out of the corner of my eye that someone was peering in the window of the store at me. The shop girl to my right was educating me on the valuable features of a very nice bag when I recognized the window man. Husband. And not only was it husband, but he had a store bag in his hand that he was attempting to remove an item from. And then he was holding up said item,
a blue and tan bag of the exact same shape and style of my now unusable bag. He had a big smile on his face while he pointed to the bag and motioned for me to come out of the store.
My jaw dropped. What had he done! I didn't want that bag, this was my big chance to get something I really wanted that matched my other maroon suitcase and he had gone and picked up any old thing just so we could leave!!!!!! I was furious!
Chaos ensued as I left the shop girl holding the black bag and went tearing out of that store to verbally ream my husband and demand that he return the bag. Just as I reached him, Mo, Pants and Kari showed up as well, and their laughing at my goofy husband saved him from the head severing I had in mind for him. (I just can't yell at him when there are other people around.) No one understood why I was so mad, and as usual, I couldn't articulate it at the time, so I pouted as we headed back to the van.
It took me a little while to give up on my grudge and accept the bag. I really didn't want to, I figured maybe Scotland would adopt it and I would be free once again to find the perfect item to replace it. But as time has passed, I have realized three very important things. One, my husband will never give up his old army bags as his preferred form of luggage because to him luggage is no big deal. It doesn't matter. Two, I have to consciously force myself to let go of the anger I was harboring from this incident and constantly tell myself "
It's not a big deal. It is just an ugly bag" as I am lugging it from place to place. And the third thing? Shortly after we returned from this infamous vacation, I had just unpacked my maroon suitcase and lifted it to carry it upstairs, when I noticed that the plastic handle was severely mangled on the trip home and is...
irreparable.
Yay! New luggage!
And guess who will
not be coming when I pick it out?